“Diving under the Iceberg: From Hardship to fullfilled Relationship.”
– My motto as relationship counselor and coach
About Me – Hui, Multicultural Relationship Counselor & Coach
🌏 Guiding Multicultural Couples with Heart, Experience, and Clarity
Hi, I’m Hui – a relationship counselor and couples coach with a special focus on intercultural relationships and multicultural marriage dynamics.
Originally from China, I’ve lived in Europe for over 24 years. I’m married to a husband of German and British descent, and my family is spread across Asia, Europe, North America, and Australia. My personal life and professional career have allowed me to work closely with people from five continents – giving me first-hand insight into cross-cultural communication and the emotional challenges that multicultural couples often face.
❤️ Real-Life Experience Meets Deep Empathy
Friends, clients – even strangers I meet while traveling – often describe me as warm, open, and deeply intuitive. People quickly feel safe around me. They share their thoughts, relationship struggles, and sometimes even secrets they’ve never told anyone else.
But my understanding of relationships isn’t just based on theory or training – it’s lived. I spent seven years in a difficult cross-cultural relationship that, despite deep love, ended painfully. After four years of self-reflection, healing, and inner work, I entered a joyful and deeply fulfilling marriage that I’ve now shared for nine years. Together, we’re raising two beautiful children.
This journey shaped my purpose:
To help multicultural and international couples navigate emotional complexity and build stronger, more connected relationships.
💬 How I Work – Relationship Coaching with Depth and Direction
I combine global best practices in couples counseling with my own multicultural lens and lived experience. In our sessions, we’ll:
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Address the emotional and cultural roots of your challenges
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Identify and understand core needs, values, and attachment styles
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Use proven methods to deepen communication and rebuild trust
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Avoid surface-level fixes and go straight to the heart of the issues
My approach is practical, clear, and insight-driven. I don’t offer quick fixes or empty promises – instead, I guide you to uncover your own authentic solutions.
And from experience, I can say:
Most couples gain surprising clarity – both about themselves and their relationship – after just a few sessions.
🌿 My Message to You
Please don’t make the same mistakes I did. Don’t stay stuck in conflict, confusion, or emotional distance longer than necessary.
You don’t have to figure everything out on your own.
Let me – or another trusted professional – help you move forward with confidence, clarity, and connection. You deserve a relationship that feels aligned, grounded, and alive.
Book a 20-minute free consultation call or 90-minute session.